ENJOY LIFE

Good evening to all my fellow friends, how you guys doing this Tuesday? I just feel to share something about my tomorrow. Honestly, our emotion flow as we never expect how. We used to like it or neither not to. But yet it brings us forward to more unusual-self by liking it and make the right decision being comprehension the true color of our personal emotional act.

First of all, I miss the real piece of each and every of us so called “Education”. I might not continue at Universities but I carry the enthusiasm of ambition. I see peoples getting graduation and wearing the robe of success the hat of future and me? Standing in the boutique carry on whats the next day gonna be. They said there is no future for me I don’t resist and I’m not being persist, I believe there is specific reason why I had chosen this path. I still work harder everyday to make my life perfect and being exhaust, struggle to move on my dreams. Self motivation use to be significantly to attract positive sign of signal towards our act. How do we plan for financial outcome and investment for a better future.

Just we can’t do everything as we wish. I don’t have anyone to be support in terms of finance. I still got car to pay yet it use to be a burden already. There’re still peoples can work two jobs to bring them on with some aptitude. I don’t get any of special nor gift to have these. I don’t learn piano, I don’t learn dance, I don’t learn draws but I carry my heart and those hearts. What do you have? They just discriminate or disappoint you. We’re all different in problems, emotion, mind of thoughts and motives. What do you really carry? I walked and cry behind myself. But there’re still some reason could chill me the mighty ‘God’. God says ‘I’m always at your side watching you everyday every moment’ He made me feel safe. Do God talks to His children? Someone who’re chosen? I would like to know him/her.

We all feel safe.

Peace,

Johnny

Such a really bad day. Sales were going smooth but not in everything personal. I realize something really bad coming which I being so exhausted and anxious towards February. What should I do to over come all this drama.

The brand is so great but why not the company? They always cannot deal good with staffs don't mention people who're working in office hours do you really know how a retail feel towards all these days? People with authorities, power and wealthy which blinded your sympathy and toleration. Who worked in retails we're all son of Adam, daughter of Eve and children of God. Do you know the exactly problems are always come from the above with bad management? shouldn't you protect and guide your soldiers over the true war in the battlefield? We fight for your victory your empire!? Thats how you gonna repay your soldiers?

Logically:

A.The month of festive people take leaves for celebration so?

Logically your boutique will need more staff than usual days.

Logically you need to arrange good enough staff to cover the others who're taking festive.

Logically you trying to say being fair to others for who cover up during their festive couldn't take ours?

Logically coincidences can't be avoid

B. Transfering staff to other boutique without staff on festive

Logically for the boutique who're going for festive definitely shorthanded

Logically you shouldn't EVEN DO THAT! STUPID! Then others have to BEING STUCK with your SILLY MANAGEMENT! AND WORK OVERTIME!

Logically you insist to transfer you SHOULD TRANSFER AFTER THE FESTIVE PERIOD!

C. Phone bills staff who're the one who pay?

Logically you own more than a MILLION a year YOU WANT US PAY FOR THE PHONE BILLS!?

Logically you wanna avoid staff making calls in the boutique you SHOULDN'T EVEN CONNECT THE LINE! DISCONNECT IT STUPID! OR LOCK IT!

Logically you SHOULDN'T EVEN CUT BUDGET IN PHONE BILLS! BUT FIRED WHO ALWAYS DIDN'T NOTHING IN YOUR OFFICE!

Logically this is the first time I ever heard staffs needed to pay for the phone bills THROUGH MY ENTIRE RETAIL EXPERIENCE

Logically you're telling me you worked in Coach at US thats what you manage to learn from the advance? Just a trash from you.

Really sucks man! What can I really comment?...the company, managers are SUCKS! I guess you pay over for your cert with no effort but with your silly odd fucking mind. Don't act like you're SO professional you're just a snail with the broken shell and for those who only know how to STICK and make your boss happy a.k.a (POLISH)? You're SUCKS TOO! YOU JUST WANNA GET A PROMOTION AND CREDIT! I guess thats how you got your current position. Working under your irrelevant! irrational! management you're WORST! You should go work and gain more retail experience before YOUR REALLY DESERVE TO BE A REAL MANAGER!

DON'T ACT LIKE YOU'RE PERFECT AND SO PROUD OF YOURSELF!

YOUR WORK SUCKS! YOUR MANAGEMENT SUCKS!

BECAUSE OF YOUR ALL MY ACCOUNTS ARE FREEZED! AND GROUNDED FOR FEBRUARY! ON FESTIVE MONTH!? YOU SHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The world’s second-largest sex survey of men who have sex with men, focusing mainly on men in East and Southeast Asia, has found that 46% of those who had anal intercourse reported inconsistent condom use with casual partners, and higher levels of unprotected sex with regular partners.

The (Fridae.com 2009 MSM Sex) survey has produced findings across a wide range of indicators that are remarkably similar to the world’s largest survey of gay men's sexual behaviour, the UK's annual Gay Men’s Sex Survey (GMSS) conducted by Sigma Research.

The 2009 survey was answered by nearly 8000 gay men. Twenty per cent of respondents were from the three non-Asian countries of the USA, Australia and the UK, and this may have influenced some results such as the HIV testing figures.

A quarter were from Singapore, where Fridae is based, 13% from Malaysia, 8% from Hong Kong and 6% from mainland China, six per cent from Thailand and about 3% each from Indonesia, the Philippines and Taiwan. There were also significant proportions from Japan, South Korea and Vietnam.

Findings that significantly differed from those of the UK GMSS included:

• A higher proportion of men had ever taken an HIV test than in the UK (74%, versus 65% in the GMSS), though slightly fewer had tested in the last twelve months (51% versus 54%);

• Five per cent who had tested and 3.7% of the whole group knew they had HIV, compared with 11.6% of testers and 9.8% of the whole group in the UK survey;

• A lower proportion had high numbers of partners than in the UK (13% had had more than ten partners in the last year, compared with 19.5% with more than twelve partners in the last GMSS);

• A higher proportion met partners on the internet and fewer in bars and clubs than in the UK, though the proportion meeting partners in saunas was identical.

Apart from these findings, the findings of the Asian and the UK surveys are remarkably similar.

This therefore understates the proportion of anal sex that was unprotected. In the full findings:

• Fifty-eight per cent of men had had a regular partner and 62% had had casual sex;

• Seventy-nine per cent of those with regular partners and 72% of those with casual partners had had anal sex;

• Fifty-three per cent of those who had regular partners and 33% of those with casual partners had not consistently used condoms;

• Sixty-seven per cent of those who had anal sex with regular partners, and 46% of those who had anal sex with casual partners, had not consistently used condoms.

For comparison, in the last GMSS, 53% of those who had had receptive anal sex and 52% who had had insertive anal sex had not always used a condom in the last year.

The age profile of the respondents was very similar to the GMSS, with a median age of 33 (34 in GMSS). This was an educated and well-travelled group, with two-thirds having had university education (61% in GMSS) and 64% of them having travelled out of their country of residence in the last year.

Eighty-two per cent identified as gay (86% in GMSS) and 15% as bisexual (8.5% in GMSS), with 7% reporting sex with a woman in the last year, the same proportion as in GMSS. Five point five per cent were married to a woman (in the GMSS 4.3% were married or in a primary relationship with a woman). Three quarters said they were comfortable with their sexuality, and about a third appeared socially isolated, saying they had “few or no” gay friends.

As noted above, the proportion having a large number of partners (over 10) was lower and the proportion who had been sexually abstinent was higher than in the GMSS (13% having had no sex with men versus 7% in GMSS).

Forty-five per cent of men were in a committed relationship (48% in GMSS) and 42% only had sex with their regular partner.

The internet was the most common way for men to meet each other: 72% had met someone through the internet in the last year (62% in the last GMSS, whose data was collected in 2007), 38% at saunas (the same as GMSS) and 28% in a club (52% in the GMSS at a “bar, pub or club”).

As indicated above, 5% of those tested for HIV tested positive. Of these 62% were taking antiretroviral medication and 51% had an undetectable viral load. HIV status made no difference to relationship status, with the same proportion reporting a regular partner; 70% of partners were not HIV positive themselves.

Although two-thirds agreed that “the best time to talk about HIV is before sex” only 20% had actually discussed HIV status before sex: this compares with 40% ‘sometimes’ and 10-20% ‘always’ doing so in the GMSS.

The last section of the survey asked about HIV stigma. Nearly 40% of respondents knew someone with HIV and 14% had had sex with someone they knew had HIV. Three-quarters of respondents said they would befriend someone with HIV but only 60% would share food with them and 30% would have sex with them (these results included the HIV positive respondents).

reported,

To view or download the 2009 MSM Sex Survey report (in PDF), click onto www.msmsexsurvey.com.